tafi30
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![]() Posted: Post subject: Stay with me for love not because we have kids together |
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I believe in freedom of choice, freedom to love and freedom to walk away when the love dies out.
Most of the time I am in conflict with myself, my mind wants what is against the principals of my conscience . What my mind might see as an opportunity, my conscience will consider it to be taking advantage of the weak. My heart will love and be willing to do anything for that girl but my logic will tell me that I am being stupid. If this happens to every one of us what guaranties do I have to believe that one will be the same in character for life? If I fall in love with you today, I am falling for your present personality but I do not have any guaranties that with time and events your personality will not change. Physically people are guaranteed to change and I can live with that and can love regardless of these changes but what if with time and events, your or my personality changes? Should you or I expect the same love from each other? Will it be fair to have such expectation from one another? If we do not share any children between us we will both be free to decide to part ways but if we do have kids then the situation become complicated as we will both have to consider the welfare of our kids. Considering the welfare of our children alone will not be enough some tough decisions will have to be made and usually the decision that will suit us will not be the best for our children. I would not want to be the one to walk away and I would hate not to be able to keep you within the family and most of all I would hate a situation were our kids will be raised by a single parent.
When you walk out of our house everyday you are free to find love and so am I, but if you on daily basis come back to me and I come back to you simply because of our love for each other and not because of the kids or material things we might share, for such love I will be willing to die for no matter how stupid my logic might think I am.
If we have kids who will we know for sure why we both come back home ?
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