Butshehadwings, 49

Seeking a Soulmate Hi there! I am a 38 year old PA native who has lived several different places in my adult life. I am an easygoing individual who enjoys music, animals, travel, hiking, reading, dance, food and movies. Laughing, good conversation and generally being goofy is a must. I am usually a homebody on weeknights, preferring to work out after work and then relax at home, or maybe enjoy a happy hour with friends. On the weekends, I am up for anything I am looking for someone who enjoys going out and trying new things but also staying in and snuggling. I also occasionally volunteer for a NPO, and my family knows me to be brutally honest. I have never been interested in having children, but have a niece and nephew that I adore. I am a very affectionate, passionate person but also believe in getting to know one another as individuals and making sure we function pretty well as a unit before getting too physical. While I am not one to assume I am in a relationship after a certain number of dates (or any similar craziness), the hopeful purpose of my being on this site is to find someone to spend the rest of my life with. So if you are not at a similar point in your life, then please go fishing elsewhere. Yes, at times I am a bit too into my cat, but I would be equally into him if he were a dog, iguana, or hedgehog..though the last 2 would make him a bit harder to cuddle with. I believe in building a relationship based on who someone is as a person, not what they have to offer you. For example, "I don't make a lot of money, but my partner does. I don't have a big family, but my partner does. I don't cook but"...you get the picture Last but not least..I will cuddle the stuffing out of you!