Never wanted kids. Ever. I decided I never ever wanted kids and surgically ensured I never would when I was 23. Looking for someone else who feels the same. Recently amicably divorced, as she changed her mind. So... I was honest from the start then. I'm honest now. Why do people find that so strange?
What am I looking for? Happiness. It doesn't take much money, just enough to put some porkchops and sweetcorn on the grill. It's about what you can give more than what you accumulate. It's about having work that gives you a sense of flow and achievement. It's about not letting work consume your time for family and friends. I'm looking for someone with experience enough to have figured this out, as it's easy to get distracted by shiny objects in life.
A good day: Go to the sate park for a hike or a run, head into town for a bite, pick up stuff for dinner: Chops, french bread, fresh pineapple and greens. Fire up the grill and have someone over to help chop the limes for the mojitos. Maybe head into town and catch a show. Maybe sit out back and stare at the bonfire. Go home, put on some soft music, and hope that someone special follows me in.
Hedorah, 49
currently offline
All, IA, USA
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Never wanted kids. Ever.
About Me
Gender
Male
Orientation
Straight
Height
5'10"
Weight
170 lbs
Hobbies & Interests
reading, cooking & recipes, movies, music
Body Type
athletic
Movies
sci-fi, indie, comedy, action
Orientation
straight
Eye Color
blue
Hair Color
bald
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Relationship
divorced
Have Kids
no - do not want kids
Education Level
post-Graduate
Profession
Clerical / Administrative
Income level
$25,000-$50,000
Do you smoke?
no - open to dating smokers though
Do you drink?
socially
I currently live
with pets, alone
Socially, I am
shy at first, but warm up quickly, better in small groups
Political Views
libertarian
Food Related
Omnivore
Personality
professional, lover, introvert, intellectual, geek, fun loving
Individuality
tattoos
Religious Views
Not Religious, but Spiritual
I'm looking for
conversation, dating, travel companion, the yin to my yang, something interesting, relationship, miss right now, miss right, fun
My Sign
aquarius : jan. 20-feb. 18
Military Service
national guard, army
Pets
Cats
Gender
Male
Music
Rock, Alternative Rock, Bluegrass, Country
Hair Style
shaved head
Fitness & Sports
hiking, running, swimming, working out
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Seeking Friends
577 membersA group for people interested in meeting new friends and expanding their social circle. Here, members can connect with others in the same area and make plans to hang out or just chat.
Seeking Ms. Right
730 membersA group for men and for women searching for the right woman to settle down with. Here, members can discuss what they are looking for in a partner and share their experiences.
Seeking Something Fun
563 membersA group for those who are looking for something more light-hearted in a relationship. Here, members can connect with others who just want to have fun and enjoy each others company without taking things too seriously.
No Interest in Having Children
1278 membersA group for those who have decided that having children is not part of their life plan. This is a place to discuss the pros and cons of this life decision, share experiences, and connect with others who also have chosen this path.
Seeking Something Easygoing
512 membersA group for those who are looking for a laid-back relationship. Here, members can connect with others who are looking for a relationship that is not too demanding or stressful.
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