Tomschnettler, 28

i am a 22 year old student at kent state university. i am majoring in cartoon animation and i am a junior brother in the delta chi fraternity. i have two deep passions drawing and horsemanship. i'm very open minded and i'm hoping to find someone else who shares similar views.

ever since i was very young, i've known that marriage and children aren't for me. throughout my childhood, i witnessed my parents doing things that i know i could never do. i could ramble on for hours about why i don't want kids. the biggest reason is because terrible things happen in this world. therefore i feel that it is not right to put children into a world like this. secondly, i need the freedom of living independently. i cannot have anybody depending on me for anything. lastly, i don't think i'll ever be capable of raising a child. i doubt that i'll ever have the time or money (as an animator) and i don't think i could properly discipline a kid. there are many other reasons for not wanting children, but if i wrote them all i would need at least five more pages. everyone brings up reasons why i shouldn't think this way. i wish that they could just realize that this is my prerogative. every time i tell someone about these views they just write it off as "oh you're only 22. you'll change your mind when you're 25." but yet, when i was 10 years old the same people would say to me "oh you're only 10. you'll change your mind when you're 20." none of these people acknowledge the fact that i have a plan for my life and it doesn't include marriage or children. that doesn't mean there's something wrong with me.

i know i've literally written a book here. lol xd but with that being said, i'm looking for a good kind woman with similar views. i'm a friendly outgoing guy. i'm religious and i like church too. if you share similarities, feel free to hit me up and send a message. i'm here to find likeminded people. catch ya later!